Farmgirl, Do you believe that MC is helping the R move forward? What are the goals of the MC?
Is the emphasis on understanding the past? Is there any emphasis on changing relational patterns or improving skills?
Do you respect the therapist and agree with his/her approach and framework?
I'm wondering if some of your thoughts and feeling would be better disclosed in an individual session versus a marital one.
The reason you're considering leaving the M is because of his lack of intimacy skills and your prediction that he is not capable of meeting your needs in that area. Is that correct?
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
