Give her some time. She is going to counseling, so that is very good. You wouldn't believe the number of people who refuse any help, but also can't make it better themselves. If she is willing to seek out help and be open to advice from others, that is a good thing. Honestly, I never thought my husband would go. We had tried counseling twice during our marriage, and had not had very good results. We did get a lot more out of Retrouvaille, largely because of the intensity of it -- the entire weekend devoted to thinking about ourselves and our marriage. An hour a week just didn't have enough impact.
