I would do a retrouville weekend in a heartbeat. My wife....that's another story. She tends to be against "organized" anything. As I said, the thing with her OM seems like an addiction and what's needed is AA for MLC. Although she has finally agreed to end it with the OM -- including no contact at all -- our MC has recommended that she take time to grieve what's she given up and then move on.
My wife seems to think that a marriage involves too many compromises. Well, her parent's M was horrible, her first marriage was terrible and ours was good -- but only on the surface. There were alot of things going unsaid....mostly on her side. My answer has been -- you don't really know what a healthy marriage really looks or feels like. Now we have an opportunity to make that happen. We'll see. It's one day at a time around here........... Lor
