Hey CBK--I don't have a clue about what to do about MC if OP is involved. I can only offer my own personal experience about MC..my W went for 6 sessions in a row..She went to be freinds, I went to save it. I beleive the sessions helped both of us. We both agreed the only time we would R talk was during the MC sessions and during the evening of the appointment. That's the only time we allowed ourselves to talk about the R.

The last 3 sessions I went to MC alone because the W bailed. I kept going for me AND also because I had told my W early on I was going WHETHER SHE WENT OR NOT. I believe by me continuing on without her it has shown her I am committed to fighting to save our M until the end.

So my suggestion, it does not matter one way or another whether it works or does not work if OM is involved..

IF IT'S GONNA MAKE CBK FEEL BETTER AND MAKE HIM A BETTER PERSON NO MATTER WHAT...THEN JUST DO IT.

Of course my insurance covers the cost and I only pay a $20 co-pay..so this helps me continue and still meet household expenses. it all factors in.

Last edited by M from Tennessee; 05/20/08 03:30 PM.