So it seems H can get incoming calls but he can't make calls. I called yesterday just to see what it said, didn't expect him to answer but he did. It was kind of funny because I clearly had no reason to call him.
When I was with him the phone rang about 4 times. He just looked at it and didn't answer it. The last time he volutarily showed it to me and it was a number he didn't know so he figured it was the phone company.
The first three times I don't know, it could have been the same thing but of course my first thought was OW. Instead of getting mad and asking who it was I just thought about how mad I used to get when I would call him and he wouldn't answer, especially when I needed something. So if it was OW, she was probably mad that he wasn't answering....thus calling several times in such a short period of time (three times in about 5 minutes, the last call came a couple of hours later). It is all speculation, but it helped me deal with the situation and helped me refrain from asking who it was.
We went to dinner and on the way there we drove around and looked at some houses. He has been asking me where I would want to buy a house so I showed him. He keeps giving me these "looks", I can't explain it, but it just seems like he is really thinking about things.
He also keeps bringing things up, like vacations we have been on and just things we have done in the past. Yesterday at dinner he even started talking about our honeymoon and how much fun we had. The past few days he has just been talking A LOT about the past.