So, on the drive to work today, I asked her "so, now it's been 3 weeks...how are you doing with moving back home?"
She said, "for the most part, good."
I told her I had noticed a few small signs that she was backing off, like a reduction in the amount of affection compared to 3 weeks ago when she first moved back.
"Hmmm", she said, "I hadn't noticed that, maybe it's subconscious".
She said it could also be that when she first came home, there was disproportionally more affection, and now it's more "normal".
However, she also mentioned that she struggles with wondering if we are just really good friends, or if we actually are a couple. She said we need to give it time, that we can't force it.
It was a long weekend where I live, and she said to me multiple times over the weekend, what a nice time she was having, just hanging out together. We sat in the sun, went out for a few lunches and dinners, went shopping, and just generally had a blast.
