During my separation My WAW said that "dont want you to get your hopes up" thing more times than I can remember. And each time I replied just like you (big lie). Do the 180s, maintain PMA, work on self, GAL, be their BEST FRIEND, and pray. I can't stress those last two enough, because I believe they contributed the most to my success. God Bless, Ken
Me 38 WAW 29 D 4 Married 9 Together 11 Bomb June 07 Separated Jan 08 Reconciled May 08 awesome, happy, and blessed