thanks ladey B. I just think I am going to contact her one mor time about us cleaning our old place now that we are both moved out. if she bites on that then I will call her again to see a movie on thursday....i think \:\) GOD I HATE THIS!!!!! if i draw back im told " you dont contact me enough" and she finds it easy to let me go. if i try to do things she says she has plans with her friends. sigh another day in paradise. Im am very much contimplating the LRT. just going dark and seeing is she comes twords me at all because right now i feel like crap all the time doing all the work.