Are you still talking like Donald Rumsfeld? You bet.
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I have discussed with my friend Deb and she told me that she read the same type books while involved in her affair and for her it wasn't really comparing her life with the stories but more an escape from all the pain/turmoil that was her life.
That's my point. When is she going to start to introspect, and working on healing the damage she's caused? Even if it's not working to heal YOUR pain or even the marital pain, it would be a far healthier sign for her to be reading SOMETHING that is helping HERSELF learn and grow from the mistakes she's made, so that she's not doomed to repeat them.
It's just that I think, as we've discussed, that there are things that you can be doing that are "next steps" right now, and your plan seems to be to passively wait out the month and hope for the best.
