Wading with Water wings - 23 years...

[CBK]

Good morning all -

Had a little rough patch last night, just was in a "miss my wife" mood. Didn't think about contacting her, but needed a good cry I guess. That has been the first one since Friday I think.

Okay, I need some input:

I have MC on Thursday, I know, why go, but this is the only time I think my WAW will talk to me. Since she told the kids she was only going to move out for a few days, my IC thinks she may want to talk about her moving back in. I am fine with this, but we need to set up some boundaries

1) She must stop contact with the other man
2) She needs to treat me with respect, even like a roommate is okay. I can't put up with the "pissyness" all the time

I would also like to say let's just spend 5 to 10 minutes a day and talk about "stuff" - just sit on the front porch over a glass of wine or a margarita.

Does this sound okay?

There is also the chance where she may say it is impossible to get to a place where she is happy with herself as long as she is in the house - if this comes up, I plan on saying "I am sorry you feel this way, but if that is truly how you feel, I will not stand in your way to find an apartment" IF this happens, should I also say that we need to have separate accounts as well or is that going to far?

Any other suggestions? I have until Thursday, so all input is needed and welcome.

CBK