Help! New to this...still hoping for R

[Rusty]

Brandon - my whole career has been based on "doing well while doing good". I work in fundraising for charities and I love it. And I agree wholeheartedly with your 4 important things. One thing I do know is that if this S had not have occurred, I would never be in the place I am spiritually. It has brought me closer to God - I am attending a weekly bible study and learning so much! I am going to really focus on my work and kids - that I have already decided. This summer, since I work on a project/self employment basis, we will have alot of fun I hope!

The business my H and father own, I am not involved in other than financially via ownership, so I don't have to really worry about the day-to-day stuff. My biggest worry is that my H will not be fair to my family - they have invested so much in us and this business. And unthreading this mess when D comes up will be painful! But - I am not going to dwell on that. If and when D comes, I will deal with it then.

Thanks for your thoughts!