The one thing I am disappointed in about WAW is that she quit going to church, but I guess when you break one of the "big rules" you have to come with the right mind set asking for forgiveness.
That is so true! It is hard to go to church when you know you are living against what God wants for your life. When she gets herself together, she will go back.
I think her leaving right now has been the best for both of you. Usually, I encourage people to stay under the same roof as long as they can, but it was tearing you up too badly and it was just making her more mad as the days went by. So, being apart good very well be what both of you need to heal. She certainly needs space and time to figure out what she wants and what she is going to do about OM. But, thank God, you are not being obsessed with all of that....instead you are seeing what all you have to be thankful for. To me, that is being a man! Your idea of the trip for your assistant and boyfriend is excellent. She has covered your back during a difficult time, so let her know how you appreciate that.
I would love to talk longer, but have to get ready for work. Have a great day and keep up the PMA.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!