My H arrived home from work in a fabulous mood. And before he had even gone off to work I remember now that he looked at me like he was leaving for months and said to me ....
" come with me to work.." and then he came back to Earth and said " No I cant take you , you will just get bored and kissed me."
* ( I am speculating here but I do think it has to do with how nice and real and genuine I was being the whole weeekend.... he may have felt or a little WTF?too?") I have been far less reactive since the BOMB... but I can also tell ( lately more than ever)I am softening the rough edges and actually letting down my guard more too)
When he arrrived he was being like he was when we first met.....
All these things shocked/bewildered me....
I made a new recipe and he wasnt up for it / normally in the past he would have thrown a fit..... * why didnt you make x, y r z, what were you thinking etc etc etc..... he did no such thing .
He said instead " thats ok sweetie , I am sorry , Idont like that... would you mind terribly making an egg for me? WTF? My Inner thoughts " who the fcuk are you and where is my H?"
We had no eggs/ that would normally upset him too/ why didnt you buy them yesterday ... blah, blah , blah..... He replies " that is ok honey.... ???? I tell him " well I dont mind running for some if youd like"
He replies " No honey that is not necessary.."??????????? I go to the store,,, when I get back he decides to make his own eggs but not cause he is angry/***old behavior... and he kisses me and smiles at me. WTF?
I know in print this seems so normal for him to act civil but usually he is not like this.
I shouldnt have, I suppose , ....but I asked " why are you being so nice?' He asked " I am ?" a few minutes later I am overcome by "feelings" ... he keeps acting sincere and generous,, and then he sees my face and says " what is wrong sweetie?"
I reply " nothing you are being awesome..... I am ok." He proceeded to be pleasant to..... a T.. the rest of the evening......
~Wow... and may I say he was richly "rewarded" by me before he went to bed..... He even said when I was done " what did you do to me?"
I could get used to that.... he is VERY CAPABLE of being a Great Husband. I was impressed and the best part is is wasnt ass kissing it was real and from the heart....
