I really do wish he would give Retrouvaille a try. I know i've said it over and over, but it was the best weekend of my life. When I am frightened by something my mind tries to go to my little room at the monastery where I felt safe. And believe me, I am not a monastery kind of girl! For one thing, I'm Jewish. First thing I did was take the crucifix off the wall and put it in the drawer. So I never thought it would become a place that lingered in my mind. But it did.