Sara, your kids sound amazing. I am sure if my kids new, they would probably do the same thing - but I have chosen not to tell them - they know I am hurting but don't know why. I am just sick about OM, I have obsessed far too much. If my son knew, he would look him up and do the same thing. WAW thinks I am just being vindictive if I tell the kids. I made that bed and gave her my word that I would not tell anybody.

Your story is inspiring to me. You are right, I have a tough group of posters, they all mean well and I take what I choose to take. I love my wife dearly and feel as if it may be too late. Will see on Thursday where she is.

Thanks again Sara.

CBK


M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19
Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16
Divorce final 10/09