Supermom and the Brighter Tomorrow

[JennyF]

I'm building up to a conversation with H. I need to talk to him about some things with the kids and it is going to lead to a conversation about my opinions regarding his decisions.
This will undoubtedly lead to 'other' conversations.

I am fully aware of this and will do my utmost to keep it civil and not angry in any way.
By the end of this week we could have sold the house, settled our finances and I could have an offer in another house. For all intents and purposes we are getting a divorce...now. And I want one last chance to tell him that I do not want a divorce. I am moving on with my life and I will be doing whatever I have to ensure the kids and I will be ok...but it's not my choice, it's his.
I have been working through it all in my head because I want to be ready. I have a feeling this could be a make it or break it conversation. If SG is still checking on me she will tell me "NO! Don't do it!". But I am not DB'ing...but my intuition is telling me something is going on with him right now.
I want to validate in this conversation, but at the same time I need to hear where I am coming for the sake of my children.
Suddenly it all seems so clear to me. I can have this conversation with him and I don't care what the outcome is. I have to have this conversation with him as the mother of his kids. When I think of it that way, I know it's the right thing to do.
Now I just need to really figure out what I want to say.....
J~