I read one of your post on another thread and just wanted to drop by and introduce myself. I was almost a WAW. My name is Sandi. I hope that things will work out for you and your W. It does seem very soon after the bomb for her to come around....but we can always hope.
This is a quote from the other post and it certainly sounds like you have a MLC'er on your hands.
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The main issue, is that she's no longer sexually attracted to me, says she hasn't been for years, and can't see us ever being intimate again. I look at it as being part of her MLC -- affair, wants to get a horse, a pick-up truck, working out, losing wight, Botox....the list is long.
If this is true, and I have no doubts that it is, then you will have a long road ahead of you. The fact that she wants to come back home and try again does not automatically cause her to feel sexually attracted to you again (sorry). It does take a while to get through this MLC and it sounds as if she is wanting to do all the things she feels she missed out on somewhere along the way, plus hang onto her youth. Well, I can understand that. I spent money on every jar of youth fountain I saw advertised for almost 2 years before I realized I had to accept my age and go on.
Anyway, I am here if you ever want to talk.
Take care.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
