on the board games and going-to-the-movies-alone... you know, if you just take a step back from that a bit... it sounds totally normal and healthy. everyone needs their own life. I know married couples who do this. It may not be what you are used to, but really, him spending time on his own seems ok.

I know you have lots of other signals and the situation is not as simple as "he spends time on his own." I'm just saying, if you look just at that one aspect, it isn't unhealthy.

Anyway, hugs to you. stay well.

I'm glad you enjoyed the block party.


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Divorce final: Jan 2009
Making it up as I go....