I have to send him our tax refund & I think the best thing I can do with that is not say anything. I will send it certified so he will have to sign for it b/c I don't trust OW & afraid she will get it before he does.
When you send him the tax refund, maybe you could say something like "Hope you are doing well". I am sure you can think of something nice and caring but not pressuring.
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I do believe God is not ready for your M to be over, signs just seem to be pointing that way.
Thanks. I believe that God wants our M restored.
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I'm so afraid it might be for mine since we are already divorced. But it just happened to fast so I just don't know.
Maybe the fast D works to your advantage. Since it happened too fast for him to realize or regret, the reality might have a greater chance to sink in now, especially if OW is pressuring him to get married or pressuring him to get over you. I bet she's jealous of you. Pray for God to build a hedge of thorns around your H so that OW runs away from him.
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Don't always be available, let him wonder what you are doing for yourself.
My H says he blocks me out alot. I wonder if he really meant that. At face value, it seems to me he does. He does tend to mean what he says. Unless he does think alot about me but mistaken about how he thinks about me....
Today, I had to try very hard to force myself to concentrate on work. For some reason, I feel tired - I think this S is taking its toll on me. Last night, I wrote him the letter (in a card). I mailed it this evening.
Glad your dog is eating better... Try to keep busy. I know it's hard.
