It wasn't: it was a reference to one of several books that I have found helpful and cited in my posts here. However, the moderators can edit posts as they see fit, and this site is supposed to be dedicated to Michele's books and the principles described therein, so I'll keep that in mind in future.
It's all good.
-- B.
Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs S25, D23, S13, S10 20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007