im not going to hit you with a 2x4 about the snooping, because I would have done the same thing.

You do need to stick to the plan as you say, and like puppy said don't waver... He needs to know your not playing around and that you mean business.

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me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
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porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.