I put up with it because I know him. He didn't say it on purpose. I am telling you, he calls everyone by the wrong name all of the time. He is awful with names. A lot of people say that, but he really is. I am SURE he called the OW "Sara" a bunch more times than the 2 times he called me by her name.
I am sticking with my plan. As long as there is no drama and he is home before 11pm, he can sleep on the couch. If he shows me by his actions that he is serious, then he can continue to do that. If there is one sign of anything else, the door is locked again. And the woman's panties in the bag need to go!!!!
Yeah, I know it was bad to snoop....but there was his stuff. It was too tempting for me.
He actually does sound different saying these words this time. And it is the first time ever for him to mention counseling. Before he laughed at the thought of it...so maybe something is changing inside of him for the better. Or....maybe she kicked him out as well and he doesn't know what else to do.
He said that he wants his life back like it was before. That is exactly what I want. Yeah, maybe a little bit better than before, but really we had a great marriage before December. We had been through counseling for the issue that happened in 06 and worked through that and things were really good. I don't understand where everything went wrong. Anyhow...I am just thinking outloud.
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08