He asked me if he could come into the house tonight after his class. I told him that I would have to think about it. When I came home tonight, his stuff was on the floor in the room with the couch. I was bad and snooped through it and found ladies underwear in a sandwhich bag in his suitcase. I just can't take this!

I do believe that he had an apartment because I found some paperwork for one and saw that he took out the amount for a downpayment on it. The OW was actually living with her mom last I knew because she was evicted from her apartment. So both of them could have been living there.

The calling me by the OWs name isn't shocking. He always is calling other people by the wrong names. He called me "Amy" (his gf before me, who he had broken up with at least a year prior to meeting me) for at least the first 6 months of our relationship. But the fact that HER name would slip out 2 times now, totally shows me that it was in fact her the whole time.


Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08