Farmgirl, I'm wondering if you can identify any positives about your H.
Has he been making any progress with his own personal growth?
Can you identify any progress in the M and R?
What's keeping me going is that my situation has improved a great deal from a year ago, so I feel it deserves a chance to see if the positives move us from friendship to intimacy at some point.
Everyone has to determine their own time frames, but the one I used when there was distance in the M, last year, was if things stayed distant for a year or more, than I would have to reconsider the M. I think a year is long enough to wait for any signs of improvement, no matter how small.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
