Aaarrrrrrrrrrgh I just lost a fairly long post.

H had a hissy fit tonight. He rang to ask if S15 was here (which he wasn't) but that was just a cover for his real intentions.

He said if financial paperwork is not exchanged by Wed he is taking me straight to court and suing me for the costs!

I said I hadn't even seen the paperwork back from my L yet. He said his had been turned round in 2 days. Pointed out his L obviously isn't very busy He said his L recommended I sack my L and counter sue them for the costs he will get from me! I should've asked if I would be charged for that advice (damn). I reminded him I am out of town at a funeral tomorrow. He said my L would have to fax me the stuff on Weds am and I could sign it and fax it back. If he thinks I'm only going to skim read it he can think again.

He went off in a tirade at the end of which I said 'Is that the end of your tantrum?' He said 'No my tantrum will last until all of this over' That has to be the closest he has come to admitting MLC

He said some more and then said he was going. I said ok I love you to and hung up.

I assume he'd had a row with OW and he thought he would just share his misery with little old me.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15