I'll keep sending messages to the universe (that sounds so new age... and hippie dippie). I doubt that's what brought about the change, but it doesn't hurt anything. =)
You deserve so much happiness... I hope your h can turn himself around for you and the boys (and himself!).
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence