I haven't figured out "quoting" yet, but anyway, I think you answered your own question when you said your son doesn't want you to say anything about it. At least I wouldn't right now.

As for the shoulder squeeze..are you not touching at all? My H doesn't mind if I rub his shoulder, his neck, touch his arm, pat his backside. Maybe he just likes to be touched. I would think a subtle touch would be fine, perhaps touching her waist as you move by each other in the kitchen, bathroom...you get the idea. I think the shoulder squeeze is more deliberate and may not come off as you hope. Just my opinion but lately, what do I know?
kat


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