Wow, she sounds more like a therapist! Sounds like a good move, CW.

I called a mediator/lawyer today at my H's request and am feeling really annoyed all over again, as the financial impact is starting to sink in. The mediator costs $250/hour and estimated that we'd need about 3-4 sessions to create a S agreement, which should then be looked over by an attorney, another cost. I learned from her that in our state, I could claim that my H abandoned me if he moves out--which is why he is so adamant about having a separation agreement beforehand.

Anyway, I seem to have a bad habit of hijacking threads lately, so I'll stop and save this rant for my own!


Me/X-H: 47/48
T 19 yrs
M 16 years
D14
D10
ILYBINILWY: 10/07
H moved out 6/08