Sara, I just also wanted to say that I do know a little bit about what you are going through. H moved out, swore up and down that he was living with a friend he worked with. He was living with OW the whole time. He didn't just move in with her, they got a place together.
I will say this, I think them living together accelerated the demise of their "R". I think reality set in. My H has said that he admired how I kept my class (for the most part) through all this and OW was crazy. Don't stoop to her level. Just try to ignore that text. Especially don't give her the satisfaction of responding to it.
