Real life's getting more like fiction each day (2)

[Puppy Dog Tails]

((((((Sara)))))) I am so sorry that you are going through this.

He may have been with her, but she did not send you that text to let you know what was going on. She did as a desperate attempt to get your H to come back and to cause drama between the two of you. Don't let it work.

Hang in there Sara, try not to let her get to you.

I agree, Sara. All cheaters lie.
The only thing that your husband can do right now is actions -- over time. And nothing that this tramp can say changes that one way OR another.

Warm, puppy hugs,

Puppy

[Starshyne]

All I know right now is that this is getting to the point where it is more than I can take. Why can't things just be normal and boring? I don't like drama. And I tell you, this work drama is getting to me as well. UGGHGH!!

The only thing her tm tells me is that he has been with her. Which does tell me a lot. It is easier for me to wrap my mind around him being with her. I've been down this road with her before. Where she confessed her soul out to me...oh what an awful thing she did..blah blah blah. She felt so bad, blah blah blah. I didn't believe her then and I won't believe her now.

His actions over time is the only way to really see any proof. I need to work on myself and help myself not feel like I am drowning.

[klm]

I didn't believe her then and I won't believe her now.

That's a good plan. If she felt so bad she never would have contacted him or you again and never would have allowed him to either. She is not your friend.

[Puppy Dog Tails]

She is not your friend.

SO true.

[klm]

Sara, I just also wanted to say that I do know a little bit about what you are going through. H moved out, swore up and down that he was living with a friend he worked with. He was living with OW the whole time. He didn't just move in with her, they got a place together.

I will say this, I think them living together accelerated the demise of their "R". I think reality set in. My H has said that he admired how I kept my class (for the most part) through all this and OW was crazy. Don't stoop to her level. Just try to ignore that text. Especially don't give her the satisfaction of responding to it.

[Eagle 2]

Sara,

Don't communicate with her if you can help it. She does this because she knows it will impact you... and him.
Ignore it this time and every other time she tries to communicate with you. You only get hurt and she gets the attention she wants.

Just MHO.

Hang it there.

[klm]

Can you block her number from your phone?

[MichelleLT]

I can't add anything because the advice you are getting is steller. So, (((((((big hugs)))))))

[Starshyne]

H just called...says that he is serious about working things out. Says he wants to get into counseling because he knows that he needs help and can't do it totally alone. He says that he paid off the lease on the apartment and does not want to stay there (maybe he was staying there with OW??).

I am going to go work out. I just can't think about this any longer.

[Starshyne]

Oh...when he called me just now, who's name did he say yet again? Hers! Ugh!