I know it's hard, but put down that crack pipe and step away.
Until he comes to you with something concrete, something real, some real evidence that he wants to do something about his feelings you need to move forward with your life.
Figure out where your problems in the marriage were. Not for him, but for you so that your next relationship whether that be with him or someone else will flourish.
As for the lawyer, I think I'd march my butt down to the office and refuse to leave until I got an answer as to where my motion was.
BFM
There is only one person who could ever make you happy, and that person is you. David Burns, Intimate Connections
