hey cbk,

i also took a few days off. i think w moving out was inevitable and would have served You better had it happened sooner. but now that it is here you forced to detach. turnarounds can happen dude. my w recommitted at mc on friday. just kind of came out of blue. so, although your sitch is going to take longer, keep pressing on. she will come to her senses someday soon and bam she'll be back. if w hadnt recommit i would have ben happy with sep. its almost too hard while two distant spouses are in same house. neither gets the chance to regroup, think clearly etc. so this is for the best RIGHT NOW. so as all the other good posters have already said, get your head together, figure out your plan and attack. good luck, i'm rooting for us all....


Fight the good fight no matter the quality of your opponent.

Me-50 WAW-45
S13
Married 24 years
Bomb 1-Jan.2008
Disc. EA
She came back for 8 years
Bomb 2-Jan-2016
Separation 3-12-2016