A different kind of limbo...

[Sugar and Spice]

Olive,

How nice that OW already feels insecure. Perhaps you can increase that so that OW forces your H out of the house. Here's something to think about.... since your X2B still finds you attractive and is interested, you might want to nicely alert OW ("friend to friend" ;-). That it would be best if she encourage your husband to move in with her because there's a lot of sexual tension and attraction in the home.

Basically you aren't being evil, you are sharing the truth and alerting OW to a potential problem that could hurt her relationship with your H.

Olive you are a better person than me.... if I were in your shoes, and had a confused H, I'd be encouraging him to cheat on OW with me.

I couldn't have put it better myself. Friend to friend, I almost choked.

Whats it going to hurt?

I am sorry about your little one though, that is one of my biggest fears. That would put me just about over the edge and I'm so sorry you have to deal with that. You are definately a stronger person than I...