It is okay to look at the past as long as it is ONLY in the context of learning how to do it better in the future.
No blaming yourself for things you can't change, no beating yourself up over it. Just pulling out things to try if there is a next time. Brainstorming different ways to handle the R to see what works. And also remembering what DID work and reminding yourself to do more of it.
Originally Posted By: LolaL
Although I have in the past, I am trying to give him some time to miss me. I worry, though, what if he decides he doesn't?
You have no control over it. BUT odds are he does and will. Just like you think about the things you miss about him, little things about you will bubble up. He almost certainly does miss you, it's what he does about it that will matter in the long run.
Hang in there. Time is on your side. Be patient.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
