I am sorry to hear things aren't more positive for the relationship! I don't think we ever stop clinging to hope, but rather we change what we hope for! I am sorry, I remembering posting to you before she left and she was on the forum. Romantic, fairy tale love is not true love, it is excitement. Love is not true love, it is caring and concern. True love is appreciating differences, mistakes, good times and bad times. True love is for the receiver not the giver.
Unfortunately, too many of us don't remember or did not ever know what love is. True love is a decision, not a feeling! Sadly many do not fully understand the difference. Move forward, and trust that it will work out for the best for everyone!
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!