You know, the statement about the schooling doesn't bother me and I will tell you why. For the 1st time in as long as I have known my husband, he is actually happy with his job. He likes what he is doing. Sure it is a lower paying job without benefits; however the money I make teaching is enough for us and whatever he brings in is just extra. I would rather see him happy with his work and making less than unhappy with the CNA (which from what he has been told, doesn't sound like what he is wanting) and making just a little bit more. That is why I told him I thought he should try the classes and see what it is like. Maybe the things people told him aren't true.

And the month of April he WAS working around the house more. Mowing the lawn, vaccuuming, taking out the trash, doing laundry, etc. So that had improved greatly since February/March.

I just feel confused and I don't like that. I am going to just keep on doing what I have been doing. Locking all of the doors and assuming he isn't coming home. GAL and doing what I want to do. He is going to have to show me by his actions that he is wanting to work on things. The first thing would be coming home right after his class ends at 10. If he comes around any later than 1045 tonight (the college is about a 20 min. drive...give a little extra in case he has to talk to someone), he won't get in.


Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08