CBK, I took a couple of days off. Like Puppy said, these boards have a tendancy to get addicting.
WOW, again. Funny to see some virtual pushing and shoving going on. Talk about emotions running high. I come here to vent, to journal my daily life. I put down thoughts. We should be able to come here and do this and not get constantly clobbered. People mean well, however. Like you, I just take it in and keep all the advise inside of my head and try to do what I think is best.
I have been where you are in your thinking. Obsession is the only way to describe it. We have all gone through it. As much as we tell others, even tell ourselves, that we are not thinking about WW or OM, we are. I don't believe that we CAN stop. It's when we let it affect our daily lives and routines, that we have to do something about it. That is what the GALing and detaching is for.
Been told a hundred times that I'm doing this or doing that. I know I should stop doing some of them, but I don't. Not sure why. Something I struggle with. We struggle with.
Be well.
I rooted for the Lakers. Now its time for the Spurs to do thier part tonight. I should go out and watch the game at a friends, or at a bar, but I'm not. Gonna watch from the comfort of home. That's where my family is.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."