Sara, I don't think you messed up. Believe me, I would have done the same thing...and like Puppy said, I believe you will have more opportunities.
The thing about the classes that bothers me is that he was willing to do that to leave you...but not willing to do that to stay with you.
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He says how the only reason he wanted that was to make enough money to live on his own, and if we are working things out then he doesn't need that.
That statement just bothered me.
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He was unemployed for about a year while he was looking for work (and all the while doing everything to take care of the house).
Ok, I can appreciate that...but for at least the past couple of months he hasn't been contributing finacially or otherwise.
((((Sara)))) You have just been doing so good and have been sounding so much better. I don't want you to let him come back with just a little sweet talking...or even guilt. He needs to make real changes. You deserve that Sara.
