I think that it would be smart for me to show him I don't need him so much. I can come across as needy sometimes and he's never appreciated it even though he likes to feel needed. Another thing he doesn't like is when I put the blame for our R on myself. Overall 2 big 180s would be my showing him I don't need him and to stop blaming myself and putting myself down. I must act confident and not let every little thing get to me.
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
