Alright my husband's work sitch. When we first got married he was a full time student at the St. Louis Bible college. He graduated and had a difficult time finding a preaching job and eventually realized that preaching isn't really for him after all. He was unemployed for about a year while he was looking for work (and all the while doing everything to take care of the house). He also had several seasonal jobs. This past July he got hired full time at his current job. He is a homemaker for the elderly. He goes into their homes and does things for them. He is currently working full time (as long as none of his clients are put in the hospital). Someone mentioned to him that he could get a job as a CNA if he took the 6 week classes. That is the schooling that starts today, although he wasn't really sure if he'd like the CNA job better than what he is doing now, he knew that it paid more. For the six weeks he is taking classes, his work schedule will be cut to part time (I think that is what Kris was thinking about). So he IS working full time, but at a low paying job.

I know I messed up. It is just hard for me to think when I am awaken from my sleep. I felt sorry for him and I so desperately want things to work out. He knows what it takes for him to stay there full time. He still doesn't know the code to the alarm, so I can easily keep him out of the house.


Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08