I fully agree with you on this. I know he is not seeing her. Does he still have feelings for her? Maybe but I don't care about that. What I do care about is that it's put in my face so to speak and that kills the self esteem a little each time. You can only pick yourself up and dust yourself off so much before it gets old.
I did write him a letter that I think says alot of what I feel we both need and that I know he has a lot on his mind.
I did mention the talking in his sleep only because I feel that the boundry needs to be addressed. I did mention it very tactfully though.
I do know that he is trying but, we have been in this same spot for too long and not budging because he won't talk or express any thing. Something needs to give and I feel I have to do the budging or nothing will ever change.
Yoyo I want you to know that I do really value your opinion.
JAK
Last edited by jak58; 05/19/0803:53 PM.
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
