Hmmmm....... Where does it say "good things happen to good people"? I have never seen "Karma" "What comes around goes around" or anything like that. No S.P. unfortunately life doesn't work that way, its unfair, unjust, and simply, just the way it is. We either get past and get over the wrongs people do to us in life, or we go get even with them. At least what the individual considers as even, others may not. I don't mean to be so cool with this analagy, but this is what I have seen in my life experience.
braveheart,
I understand how you may feel that way. However, what we need to realize is we do NOT see everything going on in our ex's lives. We ONLY see the facade.
Think about it, for those with WASs..... Many of us had no clue they were so "unhappy"... Yet, we lived with them.... Spent lots of time with them..... How difficult would it be to APPEAR to be happy to friends, family and LBS? That would be VERY easy.
They could be very unhappy and have a plethora of issues. The OM/OW could have turned out to be a nightmare.... Yet, these people want to appear to have made the "right decision."
To make a long story short.... You will probably never see exactly how your ex reaps what your ex sows. I can pretty much guarantee it will happen......
Take Care,
NMD
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret
