Survived the wedding....boy was it interesting. Met Mr. B's family and they loved me....seems like families usually do.
In a weird way, I sort of felt like I was in my old life but then again I wasn't. My X was the youngest of 11...B is the 2nd youngest of 14. I feel like things are getting a little more complicated. He has still not found a job and his family is starting to get concerned....I think he's feeling a lot of pressure. I feel like I want to be there for him. I'm one of those people that like helping people. I heard a couple of times at the wedding....you would be good for him....good luck with that one. People used to say the same thing about my X to me. I'm afraid I might be going down the same path.
My C told me to watch out for signs when I started a relationship because a lot of times we end up falling for the same type of person. I think this is happening to some extent. B is similar personality to my X, but then again he's completely different. My X was a big flirt and I'm not getting that at all from B. B has been very successful in the past...he's much more confident than X ever was. Has that happened to anyone else or do you usually end up going for someone completely opposite? I guess I find comfort in it along with the fear....same with the big family. X's niece told me this weekend....Hope he is not like X...don't be jumping to conclusions.
Trying to go with the flow :-)
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