I kinda think that Sally has got a good point along with your Therapist.
Have the paperwork ready and if H mentions it give him the # to make the appt. see what happens then.
In my Op your H is far from done with your M but,you need to act as if he is as far as detachment. Live your life as though he is not coming back except for the dating part, of course unless you decide you are moving on.

Try to have a good day LWB

JAK

You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez