The decision is made

[ACJ]

Ater two and a half years I FINALLY got a babystep. Yeeeeeeeeeeeyy!

Don't all get too excited though. It's not a M babystep. Id asked H for the dates when he is going to Czech Republic for his future BILs wedding as S15 is temporarily coming home then. He'd sent them yesterday and I responded with a thank you and a 'I can now get his room ready'. This morning he sent me another email that said I could borrow HIS blow up bed if I wanted! I was going to let him know that I should have a new bed by then but I didn't I just replied 'thanks will let you know if I need it'.

For me this is a big thing b/c its the first act of kindness he has shown towards me since he left. Admittedly it is probably b/c it involves S15 but it is in stark contrast to him not letting D12 borrow his tent b/c 'your mother will be sleeping in it!'

So I now know I have about five weeks to get S15s bedroom decorated and comfortable.