Well I can only speak for me but yes I am happy for those many good years.When I read so many "youngsters on the board" struggling after a few years. I am grateful that my children all grew up with 2 parents in the home. That maybe a double edged sword because they like me took it very badly. Lovemy guy, don't get me wrong I was a basket case in the early days(years)but for me its been a long time and I have no contact. I can now as I said look back with a grateful heart and I am thankful. It didn't happen overnight but it happens.I shall never forget but I have forgiven my x.
