Thanks John - appreciate your words.

WAW just came in and took some more clothes with her. She cannot even say hello or goodbye she is so mad. Maybe the call put too much pressure on the A and she is detaching from OM. She is really pissed at me and our sitch. I was able to talk to my friend tonight again, I do feel like I have grown a great deal even in the last two days. I want to heal myself and make sure my kids are okay. She needs to work on herself and heal herself, then, if God thinks it is meant to be, we can work together again.

Also, when she left, she was crying - this is the first time I have seen her cry since I found out about the A. D21 said she hugged her and said goodbye. Maybe she is looking for an apt, maybe she is realizing what she is walking away from. Who knows.

I am just posting - no desire to call or reach out. She has made her decisions, time for me to make mine.

CBK

Last edited by CBK; 05/19/08 05:17 AM.

M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19
Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16
Divorce final 10/09