You guys are all so wonderful! YR, thank you for the encouragement. I hope whenever he can see what OW is really like he will start to realize what he walked away from & come back. I think they are going on a scuba diving trip & that bothers me. We always took wonderful vacations together, I just can't believe this is happening!!!!

I know what you mean about the pain, I do hope my H is feeling the pain also. I can't believe my H doesn't seem to miss anything, we had such a wonderful R & shared so many things & for him to just walk away, I don't understand. Although when he was here a month ago he did take some pictures of us together on the beach in swim suits. We had a family picture made, us & our 2 dogs, he took one of them & he took proofs of Glamour shots that I had made for him as a wedding gift. I'm not sure why he took those. I hope he hasn't let go yet but I really don't know. He does resent me now b/c I got the house & alimony. I hope he won't hold a grudge.

Hugs & thanks for the help here!!!