I wish I had some piece of wisdom that would help you overcome your sadness, but unfortunately I don't. All I can do is offer you my sympathy and let you know that I understand where your coming from.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
thanks Trip! you leaving tomorrow? I am having a beer and watching the County Music Awards. Having a good when the sad songs come on
found out about affair 8/06 H moves out Nov/06 D final 8/07 X re marries OW 5/08 _________________________ Courage does not always roar, sometimes it is a quiet voice at the end of the day saying... " I will try again tomorrow". -- Mary Anne Radmacher
Tomorrow, I am taking FA's puppy to the boarding kennel and doing some shopping while I am at it. Hoping to also leave puppy's stuff at his place so that it is there instead of mine. That way she will have all of her belongings to go home to.
found out about affair 8/06 H moves out Nov/06 D final 8/07 X re marries OW 5/08 _________________________ Courage does not always roar, sometimes it is a quiet voice at the end of the day saying... " I will try again tomorrow". -- Mary Anne Radmacher
Ohhhh Kym. That all sucks. You'll get no 2x4s from me. I think stuff just has to process.
I think its kinda like that movie Groundhog Day. We keep processing it over and over until we figure out where we're supposed to be. But there is a place for us all. And tomorrow's a new day. Hand in there and I have no doubt you'll be just fine.
Been a bad week for me. Found out my X got married a few weeks ago. I knew it was going to happen but for some reason it is still hard to swallow. Then friday I was layed off again. So here I am jobless and left wondering what direction my life is going. Can't help but think about how X's life seems to be sailing along just fine. He is re married, working on becoming a photographer . I guess he had a showing of some of his work at a winery this weekend. Yes I am having a pitty party. He is the one who did wrong not me? I thought good things were supposed to happen to good people? Not reward the bad ones. ugg. And to top off my friday, I was waiting at a light to turn, and who drives by? OW. Soemthing tells me I have not moved on and I am not over what has happend. Why cant I let it go? I know people say dont let the WAS's actions effect your emotions but come on.. It happens and we can't deny it. Please dont' beat me too hard with the 2x4. I am already low. Thanks for listining.
Hmmmm....... Where does it say "good things happen to good people"? I have never seen "Karma" "What comes around goes around" or anything like that. No S.P. unfortunately life doesn't work that way, its unfair, unjust, and simply, just the way it is. We either get past and get over the wrongs people do to us in life, or we go get even with them. At least what the individual considers as even, others may not. I don't mean to be so cool with this analagy, but this is what I have seen in my life experience.
Been a bad week for me. Found out my X got married a few weeks ago. I knew it was going to happen but for some reason it is still hard to swallow. Then friday I was layed off again. So here I am jobless and left wondering what direction my life is going. Can't help but think about how X's life seems to be sailing along just fine. He is re married, working on becoming a photographer . I guess he had a showing of some of his work at a winery this weekend. Yes I am having a pitty party. He is the one who did wrong not me? I thought good things were supposed to happen to good people? Not reward the bad ones. ugg. And to top off my friday, I was waiting at a light to turn, and who drives by? OW. Soemthing tells me I have not moved on and I am not over what has happend. Why cant I let it go? I know people say dont let the WAS's actions effect your emotions but come on.. It happens and we can't deny it. Please dont' beat me too hard with the 2x4. I am already low. Thanks for listining.
Hmmmm....... Where does it say "good things happen to good people"? I have never seen "Karma" "What comes around goes around" or anything like that. No S.P. unfortunately life doesn't work that way, its unfair, unjust, and simply, just the way it is. We either get past and get over the wrongs people do to us in life, or we go get even with them. At least what the individual considers as even, others may not. I don't mean to be so cool with this analagy, but this is what I have seen in my life experience.
Wow. Must suck being you, with that outlook, BraveHeart.
I see good things happen every day to good people, and karma's alive and well too. Now, karma's cousin Murphy is out there playing with us all too, but the good's out there for us.
Shoe, the good is there when you're done processing the bad. Plain and simple. Everything happens in its own time. Your time's still coming.
Braveheart, I would hazard a guess that your is too.
Very good point, Big hands and sometimes very hard to see when you're in the midst of a down point. I remember reading somewhere re the bible passage where Jesus reminds us that God provides for the sparrows so will he not provide for us too? The author's point was that if we sit and wait for God to come to the nest it might be a long wait! The sparrows, although provided for, still have to get out of their nests and go looking for what is provided. We must do the same, get back in the saddle and go looking for that good stuff, it's there! Feel better shoeprincess, it will get better.
when the sad songs come on