Thank you for your advice. I've been thinking about what I would say in a note to him. The more I think about it the more I think I shouldn't b/c he does resent sending me the alimony checks. I have to send him our tax refund & I think the best thing I can do with that is not say anything. I will send it certified so he will have to sign for it b/c I don't trust OW & afraid she will get it before he does.
No, I don't think this happened b/c we didn't have kids, he has always said he like it with just us. He has son from 1st marriage & I believe he was jealous of him when he was a baby. He won't admit that but he got jealous of our dogs when I would pay more attention to them & not him. The OW is older than him, 1 1/2 years so I doubt she will want any kids. She has a couple of grown ones now.
That would be so great if your H would come over this weekend like he did last year. I do believe God is not ready for your M to be over, signs just seem to be pointing that way. I'm so afraid it might be for mine since we are already divorced. But it just happened to fast so I just don't know. You just stay strong & let him do the asking & making the plans. Your are doing great!!! Don't always be available, let him wonder what you are doing for yourself.
I'm so sorry about you loosing your dog, 2.5 years is not old at all!!! My oldest is almost 14, I know she is old but I've just got to keep her around for now. She is eating better so that is good news.